Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Indianness personified.

Today was a very very interesting day. There are many arbitrary things that interested me in writing it down.

Point 1, the actor Chiranjeevi (read hero) down south, who resembles like a father to 25 and grand father to, say 10, has to face a script (which he has had opportunities to be casted as the mainstay in reel world) in real world. The fact is how many Indian films would have had this heroine eloping with the hero under the pretext of love and subsequently become rich over night after antagonizing the parents and relatives. This is what happened erstwhile now it is out there for all to see the event. Here is how it goes.

Not that I rejoice on seeing this happen to anyone but the mere fact is this guy would have advocated this concept and acted in zillion movies with the same story base. If the guy is well accepted and convinced that the role he did, which reaches several illiterate homes who think what they see on the big screen is so true, then he should have accepted to what happened in his house as well. But he did not. So this is going to be so Indian personified.

Point 2, Another thing I could think of is the incessant urge to out beat the pace of the vehicles before us in a traffic line and eventually to jump the signal when it is red. This pisses me off so much that I almost get into a good argument with them. Today morning when the conversion from Orange to Red happens, I stop, the car behind me honks so much so that I get off my vehicle and look at him. He says "It just got to red illa. You should have gone man and not stop. They don't worry if it is like for a few seconds". I was quite wild. "Hello, the signal opens up in another freaking 20 seconds so why make it a big deal". For records, he sounded and looked like a person holding high position in some work place. What is wrong us that we invest so much on the short term goals rather than look at it so that it may be a discipline. These are the same set of people who would never think about jumping the signal when the go abroad and would be the first ones to bitch about their home land - thinking they are saints here.

Point 3, why is cricket the only big sport in India? Considering there are so many people in India there should have been someother sport well funded and marketed. Sadly so anything and everything about cricket is what we see in the end :-(

Point 4: Why do the girls parents take excessive interest in filling up the "About me" column for the bride in any matrimonial sites? And why is it that the bride use the "catch" words, good in Bharatanatyam, Sing carnatic music and all that standard stuff. Why are women not forthcoming in that regard? Oh I tell you one thing, if there is one good way to make money, then it definitely ought to be the matrimonial sites and their weird membership rates. Can't believe the profits the make.

On a dead serious note, Bharatmatrimony site actually has an IT division too and they are looking for programmers to take care of the "increasing" user base and their queries. Sounds so strange to me anyway. Marriage is one thing , IT is one thing, quite strange how this whole system(arranged marriage) still works !!!!

12 comments:

Unknown said...

Hey Vikram, abt the wedding of chiranjeevi's daughter...I feel it doesnt really matter how you get married arranged or eloped or love approved..marriage has the same advantages and disadvantages(ok more disadvantages;-) hehe...but ya what bothered me more abt the entire incident was the kids 'we care a damn' attitude towards their parents(a video coverage had their interviw)..that was really sad. We dont know how the parents reacted but the kids tone was very insensitive when they spoke of their parents. I feel that kind of disrespct for parents is not fair..again only my opinion.

Vik Rajagopalan said...

Shruti:

Well not against marriage at all but just was wondering what made him to be like a thorn in their lives for about 2 years ! Was it the pride, the status, the feeling of being rich so you preach and just leave it at that?? I don't know and I am not taking side of the kids as well. Just a thought, how many times he would have starred in films with such story line and would have advocated this incident with all those "One liners" punch dialogues. Just goes to show if such a thing happens in reel life it is alright but in real life it is an incident.

Not to say that I was so in favor of what the kids did. But just goes to show the pressure they were in (I don't know if there existed a video which showed their facial contenence) but why oppose it for 2 years??

Vik Rajagopalan said...

Shruti, And in blog you are free to voice against or in favor of anything. It is just a free medium. Just wait and see when the storm - Smarty, comes and says some of her comments. You would then know what I meant :)

Aditi said...

good in bharatnatyam and carnatic music is a catch word? really?

Rani said...

OK ... im one of those CRAZY drivers sometimes, and i hate PPL WHO DRIVE SLOW. yes yes yes, i have road rage. i am legitimate in my speeding and i hate it when someone goes below speed limit or DRIVES SLOW IN THE LEFT LANE. EXCUSE ME.... ITS SLOW TRAFFIC TO THE RIGHT PLEASE!!!!

lastly, hmm i dont know why cricket is the only prominent sport. hahaha i had an argument with someone the other day tryin to prove that india plays other things too...

Vik Rajagopalan said...

@Aditi:

Trust me it is one of those standard one liners people have been using like that really matters. Seriously, how many of them have become professional dancers or singers? Why do we have this false perception that if a girl undergoes these trainings they are more homely?

@Smarty:

It is not about slow driving at all. The whole funda was the intent to jump the signal because "It just turned red". That is what I was against blah blah.

Vik Rajagopalan said...

@Aditi:

Trust me it is one of those standard one liners people have been using like that really matters. Seriously, how many of them have become professional dancers or singers? Why do we have this false perception that if a girl undergoes these trainings they are more homely?

@Smarty:

It is not about slow driving at all. The whole funda was the intent to jump the signal because "It just turned red". That is what I was against blah blah.

Keshi said...

I'd personally like slap all slow drivers.


** And why is it that the bride use the "catch" words, good in Bharatanatyam, Sing carnatic music and all that standard stuff

LOL! like it matters in marriage?

Keshi.

Vik Rajagopalan said...

@Keshi:

Hell no. It is never against the slow drivers. My post was against those jerks who think it is nice and sort of cool to jump signals and pressurize the rest to leave way to them for doing the same. Crazy is one small word for all these people.

About the cliche, well then that is how "Arranged marriage" is sold in India. Got to use the right words regardless to whether it suits the lady or not.

They made it a good commercial business and sad that everyone follow the same route. Reminds me of the pied piper and the rats !!

Keshi said...

**Got to use the right words regardless to whether it suits the lady or not.

its not abt the lady..wud a guy fall for it!

Keshi.

Vik Rajagopalan said...

@Keshi:

Oh that is my whole point of saying this whole sequence is so bastardized and commercialized. The guy's profile is no less but considering that I like to talk about women in general most times, I chose to ignore the men's profiles LOL.

Rani said...

hmmm well sometimes im like that.. i get real mad if someone's driving slow in the left lane and i missed the green signal because of that slow driver. but that doesnt mean i'd speed thru the signal or something. its just me cursing in my car .. hehehe..

plus all the signals here have camera's, so if ure caught speeding thru the signal light in orange as it turns red or in red URE GIVEN A NICE LOVELY 200 DOLLAR TICKET via mail with a picture of u, ure car and ure license plate.

so usually i shy away from speeding thru the signal.